Dyger

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Hey Fellow kinksters

TL;DR - Married to jai617, Here to maintain connections, Not actively looking

🦋:@dyger.bsky.social | BLUF: 4194 | ✖️: @dyger11

Thanks for stopping by. I am a Dominant guy who is fortunate to have a great boy (@jai617) as my husband. The two of us have been into kink for many years, and have enjoyed and continue to enjoy many aspects. It’s been a great journey, and We’ve enjoyed learning a great deal and continuing to learn. We’ve been expanding our kink circle to meet other folks for friendship and/or play. Should the opportunity and interest arise, the boy and I are open to meeting others (both sub and Dom). But...striking our interest will take more than a quick message asking to play. We are looking for connection, quality, and kink… not quick one-offs. Feel free to say hi, but understand that play will not necessarily follow, and the most likely response will be a polite no. Kink is not my full time job, so I am selective about whom I meet. I want to maintain and build quality connections, so I tend to be interested folks who are local, who spark my curiosity in some way, and/or who have a connection to me through friends. If I say no to a meeting, it is because I do not want to spread myself too thin. With increasing interest, I am becoming more selective. Learning to be more direct with ‘no’ has been a challenge for me, but I have learned the hard way how important that is. Please respect my decision If I say no. The kink universe is broad and not everyone’s interests and preferences align.

I’ve had the pleasure of working with many great Doms and subs. The gallery of ‘subs who have served’ shows some of my work, as well as the gallery of my own boy. One of the things I most enjoy is the opportunity to learn from others, which is why I prefer connections that are ongoing rather than one time events.

The boy and I are primarily into D/s, and for me, it is the power exchange that gets me dripping. Nothing better than going to the dungeon and finding my (and other) sub(s) naked, kneeling with a Manhattan...that has been the start to many great scenes. Alcohol (in moderation) is the extent of substances I use during play, so if you require other things, we won’t be a match. Servitude in all its forms is a huge turn on. The feeling of a sub’s tongue on my boots (and elsewhere), can really get me going. I'm also a huge fan of chastity and cum control. A locked cock never fails to get mine hard. Bondage, spanking, flogging, CBT, assplay and sounding round out the rest of my interests. I’ve recently started to explore electro and suspension. Aftercare is an important component of any scene, with lots of body contact.

A good scene is based on communication and consent. Understanding a sub’s buttons and what pushes them is what lets me channel my Dominance most effectively. I get off when a sub gets off on my control and melts into subspace…it’s the circular nature of power exchange that I love. That is why aftercare is so important. Debriefing after a scene to know what was incredible, what was ‘meh’, what was ‘ugh’ and what was ‘WOW’ helps everyone grow, learn, and be able to make the next scene better.

On PrEP and STI negative, test regularly. Had my 5th COVID shot and my second monkeypox (8/22).

My friends list is reserved for those I’ve had the pleasure of playing with and/or meeting. Until we meet, any friend requests will be denied, but feel free to add me as a favorite.

There is a 10% submissive side of me that sometimes needs to come out (typically online). My nips seem to be the key, clamp them, and you will be well on the way to sending me to subspace. Message if you think you are the right person to take control.

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