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I can't count the number of great guys I've met on Recon, some of whom have become good friends--in particular, my Sir (Cluff) and boy (NMX90). I am very lucky to have met both of these wonderful men.

Physically I'm a bigger guy working to be better proportioned. I'm losing fat and putting on muscle. My biceps have grown so much that I had them tattooed with my own designs and I am quite proud of them. I'm amazed by how much I enjoy working out, and it takes up a lot of my time (3 or 4 sessions a week).

My special area of expertise--and enjoyment--is prostate massage. I love watching a guy shoot his load while his prostate is being milked. Every guy--top, bottom, versatile--has a prostate, and those I play with soon find out just how incredible it feels to have it worked over.

I have a MAJOR fetish for butts...outside and inside. Most of my sexual fantasies somehow revolve around playing with a guy's ass. I'm the kind of guy who watches porn and fast-forwards through the blowjobs to get to the fucking. I truly do not care how big your dick is, as long as you have one. As far as I'm concerned, your hard cock is best used as a handle to turn you over onto your stomach. I'm not into fucking any more, but I have a variety of toys of all shapes and sizes to keep your ass occupied and happy!

I have a bottom side, too. If you're fucking me, you're gonna have something up your ass, too, so you know what it feels like. Usually it will be a prostate massager, to turbocharge your orgasm and blow the top of your head off when you cum. I love doing this to guys who say they're 100% tops. There's nothing like having a guy fuck you while he's practically screaming because he can't believe how incredible it feels. The guys I've done this with tell me it's something they never forget. But I'm really picky about who gets to top me; it has to be someone I trust. My Sir is teaching me to be a good bottom so that I can be a better top. (And now I know what it feels like to be spanked and flogged.)

Negative and on PrEP as of November 2015.

What else turns me on? Shiny stuff...like my black motorcycle, rumbling between my legs, with just the right amount of chrome. Black (especially tall) boots, polished to a mirror-like gloss. (My bike and boots get polished frequently, some would say obsessively.) My leather jacket, chaps, gauntlet gloves, and especially the whole "motorcycle cop" look. Leather uniforms (something I finally purchased after losing 30 pounds). The things that guys tell me they want me to do to them while I'm wearing this stuff. I stay dressed; they get naked, or nearly so. That feeling of dominance is incredibly powerful. The mental image of a hot, naked guy, waiting for me to work over his ass, gets me dripping every time. I'm very proud of the fairly complete motorcycle cop uniform I've put together.

I'm comfortable enough with myself to like being called Daddy. I prefer my boys to be younger than I am and in good shape physically. I have a strong paternal instinct and a need to act as a mentor to less experienced men.

I'm also really turned on by spanking. I'd love to meet a guy who gets off on a very intense paddling. Electro-stimulation (e-stim) has become one of my favorite things to play with. Enemas and medical scenes are some of the more edgy things I want to explore.

I have to admit I'm not much into bondage. I'll restrain you if you want me to, but it'll be cuffs and chains; I flunked knot-tying in Boy Scouts.

I lost my partner of 46 years in March 2024. Not sure if I'm looking for another relationship, but it does mean that I can host, and prefer to do so.