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Masochistic boy for CBT/kink play near AL/TN
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Location:
United States, Alabama, Huntsville
Interests:
Bears, Bondage, Electro, Impact Play, Underwear
Even though I'm fully vaccinated and (bivalent) boosted against Covid, I'm still leery of any in-person activity. I'm not saying I won't meet up, but the circumstances have to be close to perfect.
I'm Richard, a 52 year old, 5'9", 295 lb gay man with a 46" waist, chubby bear build, and hazel eyes. My small uncut cock is a grower and not a shower. Though I have black hair and some body fur, I shave my head and sometimes my balls, pubes, nips, pits, and ass. Even though my face is currently clean shaven, I have grown a short mustache and goatee.
I'm a masochist seeking sadistic tops for casual BDSM play. I enjoy cock, ball, and tit torture (CBT and TT are favorites), electro (My ErosTek 312 on Waves makes me cum hands free without jerking.), flogging, bondage, spanking, and more. I play at lite to moderate levels depending on the activity. In my younger years, I have even cum from lite, repeated slaps to my balls.
I also enjoy cuddling, passionate kissing, and other gentler sexual activities. I love sucking cock, but am not fond of fucking. What I engage in depends on who I'm with and their interests, and the trust I have with them. In general, I'm not interested in cyber/net/cam/phone sex but will consider cam shows.
More masochist than a bottom or slave, I can serve if it gets me what I want. I can top with the right person and our chemistry. Big, low hanging balls really bring out my sadistic side. I usually only top local guys, though mutual play or taking turns is fine.
My hard limits NEVER to be done include temporary or permanent piercing, scat or other raunch, blood sports, fire play, breath control, fisting, knife/gun/weapon play, face hitting/gut punching, rough or unsafe sex, anything that alters my body permanently, and marks that last much longer than my visit.
I play by the usual safe, sane, consensual convention of establishing trust and safety first. I'd rather start slow and easy with someone new, and work my way up as trust develops. I am drug and smoke/vape free. My last HIV/STD test was negative in May 2018.
I do, however, have a genetic skin condition called ichthyosis (similar to psoriasis). It's not contagious, but the dry, scaly skin on my back, legs, and arms has ruined my personal self-image and sex appeal. I'm revealing this here so there won't be any surprises in person.
Because of all these things (no libido, low finances, ichthyosis, and Covid), I haven't had any sexual contact or kink play with anyone since June 2015. I do pleasure myself fairly regularly, but it's by myself.
I live about 30 miles northwest of Huntsville near Ardmore, but my living situation prevents me from hosting guests at home. I might be willing to travel throughout the southeast area (AL/GA/TN) for the right BDSM fun, including Atlanta, Birmingham, and Nashville. Unfortunately, Dragon Con in Atlanta on Labor Day weekend is the only event I can afford to attend these days, though I use to attend lots of leather/bear events and sci-fi conventions.
Since I easily forget names and faces, I'm shy in social situations despite being a kinky pervert. I'm not fond of bars, so I prefer meeting online or through clubs/friends. I use to be active with sci-fi, bear, leather, gay, and other social organizations, but my participation has waned lately due to lack of interest, time, and finances. I haven't even sought out casual sex, kinky play time, or a relationship.
If I'm online then I'm just doing a periodic message check and profile update since I rarely get on here anymore. However, I do have profiles with the same name as on here with other other chat/profile/video/social networking sites/apps. You'll have a much better chance catching me on the book of faces. Unless I've been gifted a Premium Membership, I usually can't view your pictures. Thank-you and have a great day, SIR!
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Age:
54
Role:
90% Passive
Ethnicity:
White
Body Type:
Large
Height:
5' 9" (175 cm)
Hair:
Shaved
Body Hair:
Some
Safe Sex:
Always
Visitors:
1 (last 30 days)
Last online:
10 Jan 2026 01:38
Last edited:
22 Oct 2023 04:16
Joined
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14 Dec 2004
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