davexdjb

bondage fun

I've been into bondage for as long as I can remember and active on Recon for 15 years. I am mainly looking for play partners but open to kink-inspired friendships (or more)--no fixed expectations or limitations.

I enjoy a wide range of dom/sub play, nowadays pretty much in the dom role exclusively, but if you aren't into being restrained and gagged as a starting point, we probably aren't a great match. I like showing newbies the ropes and love to provide a great experience for those still exploring/expanding their interests and limits.

Once you are helpless, play can go in any number of directions. I enjoy all of the below but no one thing is necessarily required:
- nipple play (gentle to intense)
- cock teasing/edging
- cock/ball harnesses/stretchers and CBT
- spanking/paddling/flogging
- "forced" oral or a good throat fucking but also oral service of any kind
- anal toys (plugs, dildos, hook)
- (safe) fucking
- vibrating toys
- feeding a sub poppers
- e-stim (penis pads, cock rings, plugs, etc)
- chastity/cock cage play
- w/s
- tickling

Restraint and control are the biggest turn-ons for me, so a session doesn't necessarily need to go further than bondage games if there's good chemistry and you are a responsive subject. Entirely passive subs who only want things done to them can get boring quickly--if that's you, please be very cute :)

I have a huge gag fetish (and an inventory of gags to match), so always enjoy subs who enjoy being silenced in a variety of ways.

I have plenty of gear and toys (though not dedicated play space) and can host just outside of NYC--or travel within the area, and more widely along the DC/Boston corridor. I travel elsewhere too, usually to bigger cities. I work in midtown and occasionally will spend a night in the city for work (or even play) reasons.

If you are upfront about what you are or are not looking for, I'm happy to be straightforward about my interest (or otherwise). I always consider mutual enjoyment the main goal. The more you can tell me about what you are into or curious about, the more likely we'll have a great time.

I'm safe, sane, patient, and friendly--a "normal" guy who can't get enough BDSM play but doesn't make it the center of his life. I generally prefer slim/fit subs who are younger than I am--my photo galleries give some idea of my "type," though attraction/chemistry is never fully predictable.

Back in its heyday I used to do sessions for the now-defunct TieGuyUK web site, and have a gallery with a few of those pics. I enjoy taking photos but it's completely optional and only do so when a sub wants to see themselves all roped up.

Thanks for reading and please be in touch! Happy to share more pics with standard members..