Bnd2srv is my partner and we just somehow keep having fun.
My basic interests and talking points always are some form of control, bondage and chastity. I like the way a lot of different gear can morf a man into something more than he anticipated. Its where the experience becomes intensely real for whatever length of time you have.
I think a man in gear is far more sexual and predatory. But there is no right gear. Hey anything that encases a guy and shows him off, is going to get my attention. But to keep my attention its probably rubber, spandex, and real practical control gear. I like it when a man has to say "uncle", even if just for a while. I am a kinky man, even the basics gets perverted.

I am over six foot, currently about 190lbs. I have pierced nips (solid rings) and a 00 gauge pa. I am inked on the left sleeve and entire left pectoral.

I have the standard hot points. But really I get interested when I start thinking about combining most or all of these on one man at one time.
Control, man as object or sub
Restraints
Forced Chastity
Forced milkings
Prolonged bondage
Display
TT
CBT
Spandex
Hard cups
Jocks
Rubber
Latex
Hoods
Muzzles
Gags
Gas masks
Pumping


Men with the same interest and possibly play, when and if.