Vacations/Work Trips:
June 14-June 22: Dublin, Ireland
June 22-June 26: Berlin, Germany
June 27-June 28: Amsterdam, Netherlands
June 29-Jul 4: West Ireland (Cork/Killarney/Inishmore/Galway)

Versatile 38 year old experienced bondage lover based out of Chicago IL, Downtown/Loop: Bondage by the Bean! Travel often, looking for regular safe and sane guys for creatively exploring restrictive bondage and sensual control. The combo of what happens beyond that depends on the person(s) but bondage is at the center. Not into sex for casual play, extreme pain or extensive role playing, but I keep an open mind if safe and consensual. Everything varies by the guy....a huge part of the fun is learning where our mutual interests creatively take us.

I love ALL types of bondage, all positions, all materials, although I am particularly fond of the basic cheap stuff you could buy at Home Depot....it has done me well so far! A few things really motivate me on more: extensive cock/ball bondage, tight restrictive nude bondage with tape/rope/saran wrap, mummification, sensual torture, sensual deprivation followed by overload, very tight and complete gags, and hoods/head wrap. I am not a dominant personality, abusive, or even like to talk that much--rather just focus on the work of creative, good looking yet effectively immobilizing bondage (on you, or on me while tightly gagged and sensory deprived) followed by sensual exploration, mild SM, or other depending on established limits.

If you don't dig bondage for its own sake, we probably aren't on the same wavelength (i.e. its not a light kink/leather accessory/foreplay...it is an end in itself!)--you know who you are. Love to take lots of pics to add to yours and my galleries, but only show ones you approve. Tight bondage done right is its own sex, and doesn't necessarily require any sort of climax, although thats sometimes a bonus. I can tie or be tied, depending on the guy, its all about the dynamic between the two (or more!) guys; that being said, I tie more lately--just not as many experienced tops out there that seem to offer a great sub session, but I am always eager! I don't require anything in return for tying outside of you being someone that I find reasonably attractive (from my perspective--please send me your current pics if not on the profile). I generally am not interested in people older than me that are purely sub for that reason, but exceptions apply.

In "real life" I also have a variety of interests: literature, theater, arts, *music* (particularly contemporary "classical"), exercise...still haven't found a kinky guy into all that too, maybe my head would explode if I did. Ultimately would find a well rounded, motivated, kinkster (or someone open to it) to form a partnership with.

Gear:
Mountain of rope
Duct tape lifetime supply
Saran wrap
Bag o Clothespins
Leather wrist/ankle restraints with buckle connectors
Neck/arm binder
Nipple clamps
Latex strips
Rubber cock rings
Erostek 232 with blue bands, rubber bands, WMCBP
Butt plug (rubber)
Butt plug with cockring attachement (rubber)
Chain collar
Neoprene collar with rings
Vibrating massager
Spandex hood
Ball gags x 3
Plug gag with external tube
Socks/hats for coverage
Various CBT (surprise) items
More duct tape
Leather chaps
Leather pants
Mr S. harness
2 rubber shirts
Rubber jock
Camo gear
Scrubs
Full body jumpsuit
Spandex shirt
Gasmask
Neoprene: singlet, sleepsack

Unlikely to be interested if you are:
Heavy smoker (or smell like it), Need alcohol/poppers to have fun, do any drugs, enjoy risky sex with anyone.