If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am not for others, what am I? And if not now, when? Hillel

After sitting on the sidelines of the gay BDSM community for a while now, I'm finally jumping in the game in earnest. I'm relatively experienced, but not a total lifestyle type (yet).

I'd rather have friends with interests outside of BDSM as well, as opposed to one-time hookups. Been there, done that, moved on. I've learned it's all about chemistry and connection between you and me.

I'm mainly into bondage and electro but willing to try lots else. CBT, TT, cum control/edging, chastity, impact play, manhandling and light ass play are all good. I'm starting to develop my pain pig side as well.

Electrostim is a favorite of mine. I've got a lot of experience and good gear.

So go ahead...throw me in the deep end of the pool. You never know what you can do until you try.

No BB. No drugs. No drama. No damage.

YIM: westlanddave78
Also on GF: westlanddave78


Play. Fun. Often on a peer-to-peer basis. But when the chemistry is right, I can fall into total sub mode or (less often) take over as a sane but tough service-oriented top. Respect for each other is paramount.

There's also something in the back of my head saying I could be a boy to the right Sir. Mentorship and growth together, rather than mindless servitude, are what I'm after in this role. I'm not interested in total, lifestyle control either. Let's keep the titles of "Sir" and "boy" for when we've both earned them.

I tend to be attracted to men around my age...not necessarily in calendar years but definitely in attitude. Physicality matters, but your mind is what interests me most.

I'm also looking for travel and camping friends. If you're interested in literature, art, photography, architecture, let's talk as well. Je parle francais aussi un peut.

Gummidawg, you will be missed.