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Service oriented and passionate...these are words that are part of my existence. i am 46 yo gay male into a variety of bd/sm and of course good hot leather/latex sex. I tend to be more btm and service oriented but can be a service Top when the right situation appears.

Activities i have tried and enjoyed: oral & anal btm, FF, bondage, mild/moderate pain, flogging, spanking, clothespins, bootblacking, sweaty vanilla sex, sounds, electric, toys, tit play, temp piercing, cbt, ass play, massage, wax, paddling, spit, ws, etc.....Have tons of toys and sling, but find some of the best play is more about the mind and less about the toys.

During free time i love reading, exercise, massage/spas, cycling, travel, movies, pottery, work, animals, beach, nudism, art, theatre.

i love to travel to NYC and depending on circumstances get there a few times years. Boston, Providence, Springfield, and of course Central MA are easily accessible. Love Europe, especially Munchen. Willing to travel if we click.

Would love to set up an opportunity to meet you and if we meet chemisty requirements we can explore options.

You be healthy, masculine male. Confident (not cocky), attractive, 20ish-49ish. Although i will not totally dismiss older as i know some amazing guys in 50's who you would never guess they were that old except for their emotional intelligence. Age is really not critical but I like to make certain that it is not so far off that there is no common ground.

Tell me about yourself. What do you enjoy, what do you require..etc. It is best to reach me on america on line at artistdelife.

One other interesting fact about me. over the past year i have lost 152 pounds and did 20 the year before that. Yup...i have lost a whole person. feels great! 35 more till i get to slim build. If you know anyone who has gear that is too small for them..iive me a shout. I need to replace all my boots, leathers and rubber as everything is way too big. Wouldn't it be better to sell off the stuff that is too small. ;-)

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What is YOUR passion? I have found for me to have a connection, it is often around the other person's passion. If you do not have things in your life you are passionate about we will probably not click.

Generally looking for confident, safe, and secure Top (or btm) who is into bondage and a variety of sm. To gain my attention,a Sir/Top needs to be empowered in his authority. This allows me to release control. If you are a btm..gain my attention by being 18-40 in shape and communicative.

i am at a place in my life where a connection is important to me. I approach life & play w/ a conscious awareness and prefer others who do as well. Casual encounters can be fun.. but developing community, meeting others, having an extended family, and deeper relationships are important.

I am healthy and focused on continued health.

While i am more btm, occassionally i will play with btms who want to explore various bdsm activities.

Upcoming travels:
NYC March
San Francisco April
Chicago May
NYC June
San Francisco July
Indianapolis August
Possibley LA August.