Rochester, NY/Toronto: 11/24-11/28

About Me:

- HIV negative (3/2010)

Im a down to earth, fun, and genuine person out and known in the leather community. Looking for a partner first before a boy or a Sir, however if one of those crosses my path, I would look a gift horse in the mouth. Hopefully Ill have someone for each role, including a pup or handler.

On a submissive/bottom side, I would not make a very good boy (been called willful which I enjoy being). I have a brain, and know how to use it. With the right person however I will submit, and do what you want (with limits) providing there is mutual trust and respect for limits and each other. Im not a size queen and although have had giant cocks, I find the average to be more fulfilling.

Shaving is definitely an option and a turn on for me as well. I enjoy being stripped of masculinity on a submissive level.

On the dominant/top side, I enjoy fisting, being daddy, exploring bondage, mummification, nipple play, fucking, and a lot more.

Into most fetishes, and open to explore possibilities with new ones. Some interests Ive explored and enjoy, are leather, rubber, neoprene, lycra, puppy play, diapers, watersports, bondage, lingerie, panties, costumes, food.

Would love to video tape sessions or take photos. Can top or bottom, but havent been a bottom in a while, and definitely looking to explore my roots again. Very happy to call a guy Sir, or be called Sir.

Im polyamorous, so open to multiple relationships whether its friendships, fuck buddies, or family style group of men. I dont question what the potential can be when it comes to caring about someone, or many.

So my stats: 40 years old, 5 foot 10, 170 pounds (heading downward), trimmed beard (always changing), dick size 5 1/2 inches cut. Please know your status and play safe. Work out regularly (not a muscle god but definitely athletic build).

On a personal note, Im outgoing, enjoy friends, socializing (social butterfly here). Always open to meet new people and play tour guide to hot men visiting.

You: Im not really picky about age but do have preferences to guys in their 30s - mid 40s (will go younger or older depending on the person and the connection). Like all sizes (prefer average size, but have made exceptions to muscle bears as well as some twinks). Otters and Wolves are my favorite. All types of guys turn me on, just as long as youre attractive (thats for you to consider first before I can) and decent.

Pleasehave a photo (since Ive got mine out there).

Open to one time or on going and seeing where it leads. Doesnt have to be today (just because Im online doesnt always mean Im looking). Its kind of a sexual dating so Im open to scheduling a time. Prefer someone in San Francisco, but not closed to guys outside (since sometimes the best things come in different places out there).

If you made it this far, thanks for reading.