Restraint, submission, youth, beauty, sensuality, pain, pleasure- these are the elements that I seek to bind together with my rope play. There is nothing like the intense connection and sexual electricity that can be gained when a sub gives up control and enters on a journey into their deepest fantasies- helpless but trusting, pushed to a limit but loving it, totally restrained but exuding energy and breathless with excitement.

I like to explore different avenues with different subs. Sometimes that maybe a exploration of passion, sensuality and eroticism, sometimes it maybe about a deeper level of submission or objectification, and sometimes it will include harder pain play. For me the best scenes include all these areas varying intensity, pace and sensation, but I am sensitive to the differing drives of subs.

The play could include oral, fucking, cbt, tt, cp, flogging, paddling, electro, bc, ws, fisting, pegs, wax- all mild to wild. Nothing is compulsory except bondage and kissing. It’s not the activities that turn me on but the sub’s responses to them. I would rather have ecstasy from a caress than indifference to a punch. If you are into none of the above, however, I am unlikely to be interested.

There are a number of things that normally do not work for me. I am not a Master; I do not want to own you, keep you in chastity or blabber on with the cliché talk of a bad porn movie. I am also not interested in long term bondage play; I find tied up boys in the corner just get in the way.

About me
I am a professional, intelligent, cultured, creative, and sane man. I have a sense of humour and don’t take this whole kink world very seriously; bondage is a bit of fun for me and not my life. I keep in shape and am healthy. I don't mess people around and act with integrity; I expect the same in return.

What I am looking for:
Ideally I am looking for regular meets with nice guys who attract me sexually and interest me intellectually. I want intense and erotic encounters with quality guys who have a deep desire for bondage.
For it to work for me, however, there must be a strong sexual attraction for the sub; I am not a bondage charity supplying bondage to anyone who fancies it. I make no apologies for being fussy.

Subs who have the following qualities attract me:

slim/ toned/ muscular/athletic
young in body but mature in mind
smooth
intelligent, professional, successful
innocent boy next door or geeky or alternative types
honest, polite and reliable
responsive and sexually open

I am not interested in sleazy, drugged up, ‘I want sex now’, instant gratification, barebacking, out of control, cuntboys.

I am also not interested in uptight, fussy, nervy, unresponsive, corpse like, ‘I just want to be teased’, emotionally stunted guys.

I am currently experimenting with a photoblog to show some of my pics in higher definition. Ask and I will let you know the address.

My sub side:

I occasionally like to play sub and can do it well. I obviously like bondage heavy scenes, but enjoy a variety of different experiences including fisting (thanks Kozmo). I enjoy a fair amount of pain and can deep throat much better than most subs I have played with (which is a great shame).