I am submissive. I am a top. The former is who I am, the latter is what I do. Someday I will make a good boy for a dominant.

In terms of bondage I lean towards chains and locks. I like using the feel of stainless steel against skin, and I really like locks. But I have been enjoying topping with rope and climbing webbing.
The webbing is the candy colored riibbon stuff in the dungeon photos. It's difficult to use, but it's amazingly strong and really comfortable.
I like rope.

Dungeon construction is finished. Lots of really nice hard attach points in the floor, walls, and ceiling. Tasteful lighting. The hard points in the walls are nice for floggings. The hard points in the ceiling are good for suspension. The hard points in the floor are excellent for practical bondage. The winch is fun.
The playroom was disassembled when the dungeon came online.

For me the eroticism is largely visual. I really get off on the visuals of the bondage and light struggle. I really like watching the body language of a boy feeling pleasure. This also means that the dungeon is often more brightly lit than people are used to.

I like taking photos, but respect the rules and comfort zones of others. (that's why some people are not shown and others do not have face shots)

there are some things that don't really interest me:
- cigars
- watersports
- blood
- breath control
- women
- animals

I am always looking for boys to practice on.

I had a great time on my trip to Delta 2010. I topped a demonstration at the recon booth at IML2011 (see fun gallery, and now on the recon past events page). I was on the Atlantis August 2011 Mediterranean cruise. I attended Delta2011 as a new member. I attended MAL2012 in January. I will be attending IML2012.

All of the photos in the 'boys in playroom' and 'boys in dungeon' folder were taken by me of my work on other people.

My experiences as a bottom have significantly shaped me. I have had some wonderful tops teach me about myself through bondage. Some of the lessons that I have learned in this manner:
- My nipples are confusing. (standing bondage)
- I like the violet wand. (chained to a wall)
- Feelings of helplessness rely on regular reminders. (ankles chained to wrists)
- The cessation of pain is an amazing pleasure. (carpeted floor after a partial suspension)
- I like webbing. (webbing full suspension)
- There is pleasure in the emptiness of completely letting go. (flogging)
- Submission requires letting go and relaxing. (bamboo and hemp floor work)
- Even symbolic bondage is profound without visual cues. (leather restraints and hood)
- higher reasoning is still possible during pain (plastic nipple clamps and spanking)
- relaxation comes with not watching the engineering in order to pay attention to the bondage (rope harness attached to chain fence)

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d/d free 12/2011.

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