visiblerestraint

Kink Events. I got 'em... Ask me.

Visit my YouTube Shorts series of educational videos about erotic hypnosis. Here's the link: https://www.youtube.com/@visiblerestraint

Events:
Seattle:
An Introduction to Erotic Hypnosis July 25, 2026 - TICKETS ON SALE NOW
CBT Workshop December 5 - TICKETS ON SALE SOON
Toys 8 - our Annual Men's BDSM Play Party, December 12, 2026 - TICKETS GO ON SALE IN JULY 2026

On-Going Seattle Events

MEN TYING MEN Skillshare events - Free @ Gallery Erato:
May 20, 2026, @ 7 PM
July 15, 2026, @ 7 PM

MEN TYING MEN Play Parties - Ticketed:
June 14, 2026 @ 6 PM, Tickets on sale NOW
August 9, 2026 @ 6 PM, Tickets on sale NOW

HYPNOKINK ENTHUSIAST GROUP: Skillshare Events - Free @ Gallery Erato:
May 16, 2026 @ 1 PM
July 18, 2026 @ 1 PM

HEG TRANCE NIGHT: Ticketed Hypnosis-themed play party (Pansexual):
June 20, 2026 @ 6:30 PM, Tickets on sale NOW!
August 15, 2026 @ 6:30 PM, Tickets on sale NOW!

HEG Monthly Hypnosis Skill Drill Nights - Free @ Gallery Erato
May 11, 2026 @ 7 PM
June 8, 2026, @ 7 PM

Quarterly Gentleman's Impact Group (GIG): An impact play skillshare for men:
July 9, 2026 | 7 PM - 9 PM
October 8, 2026 | 7 PM - 9 PM

Go to my website to find our new merch page: Visible Restraint t-shirts, sweatshirts, hats and much more!

In-person Erotic hypnosis subjects step to the front of the line, particularly if you're open to creating hypnosis video content with me. It's an amazing way to create intimate connection and to explore our wildest fantasies. Imagine a lucid, guided wet dream...

My site is called visiblerestraint.com

Note: staring in April 2025, there's a $12 per year paywall around the content. Sorry. It's 2025 in America. This was a security measure.

All the photos in my galleries and on my website are mine. If there's bondage in them, the bondage is my work. I have the photo ID and a model release on file for each subject shown. There's a detailed FAQ document on my website that explains how to become a bondage model for my site.

I play with all kinds, ages, sizes of guys. Lighter, tighter, younger, more flexible guys have an easier time with my bondage, but all are welcome to ask.

I have 50 years of adult bondage and SM experience. I am a bondage top. I have references. I have a playspace in Central Tacoma.

My husband and I have been in an open/poly relationship for more than 30 years. We've been married since July 1, 2013. And he's my angel. But he's not into 3-ways.

We have a strong kink family I love deeply. Among others in that family are my partners Saltnginger and Lostinsea (and his amazing husband), and my collared boys MSpin and Revrope - and my sweet collaborator and partner in crime Knotkin. And please welcome Status to our family. He's a bull, an incredibly talented hypnotist/subject and hypnosis educator.

My kink interest list is long and includes CBT, erotic hypnosis, fisting, impact play (flogging, punching, caning, spanking), watersports, breath control, cuddling, making out, TT and electricity. I enjoy giving long, intense massage. Our dungeon is well-stocked for a reason. But think of my list as more of a menu than a list of stuff you gotta do.

About the 80% Active thing: Mostly, I'm a top and a dominant. But I'm an impact play bottom. Occasionally, there's nothing better than getting the living CRAP beat out of me. I call it my reset button. And, very occasionally, it's fun to confirm that I don't have a gag reflex.

Smart, verbal guys who don't need to work off a script (or need me to work off a script) are the ones who get to play with me a second time.