MrKevin

Open to what it could be.

Sorry guys, it seems I need to move this to the top: Deal killers – #1 Heavy drugs, #2 faceless profiles, and #3 people who lie in their profiles - like about their age. If you’re not honest about that how can I trust anything else you have in your profile?

COVID Vax X5
MPX Vax X2

While I am single, my relationship orientation is Polyamorous.

It seems I am not finding the men that I seek. Perhaps they are not seeking the same things they saw in my profile, or they were not interested. In any case I am retooling my profile to be a bit broader. Some things won’t change, but it is my hope that the new frame I am placing around my information might appeal to someone that I also find appealing.

For starters I am naturally dominant. I’m not an asshole about it, but it is the core of who I am. It fits me like a well-worn pair of Levis. I have a sense of humor but can be very serious when needed. As such M/s or D/s is the foundation of my relationship(s)

Yes, I own and wear boots every day. I’m a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy. Yes I can dress up nicely and I own a fair selection of gear. You can see some of it in my photos. While I find gear sexy on a man. It is the man in it I find sexy, not the gear itself. But I also like to be viewed as sexy by others and will on occasion play in gear if I have an exceptional reason to. The easiest way is to get me in gear is to get to know me, you attract me in the brain first the rest follows easily. I like the men I play with to be turned on as well after all.

As for sex I can do the trick/casual bit, but would rather have the connection. How that connection works I’m not really worried about. It would be fair to say I am open minded about sex. Yours and mine.

While I am a highly skilled SM player, I have taken a step or two back and pretty much retired from actively engaging in BDSM play.

What kind of men do I like? I like a wide variety of men actually, tall or small, it’s about the connection so I hesitate to be very specific about it here. But I might offer: Someone who resonates with a naturally dominant personality is attractive, and someone who leans heavily to the bottom side - at least with me, but the connection trumps any specifics.