TOYSinSF

BDSM

NEXT TRAVEL: Las Vegas Smokeout (Cigarmen)

Experienced and skilled in BDSM. Looking for "sport" in my superbly equipped San Francisco dungeon. You can get a pretty damn clear idea what I seek from pictures in my profile. Be real and direct in discussion of your experience level, desires and limits. "Old school”, role play & protocol matter. Not into humiliation. There is nothing inferior about good masochist giving up control to skilled & responsible Sadist.

For BDSM to really work, there must be both sensuality and intimacy to achieve a real connection. Domination and pain balanced with "nurturing".
At 27 years was longest serving Fraternal Member (Board of Directors) of San Francisco's 15 Association. Long time active member of Chicago Hellfire Club (CHC). Recognized by CHC for long service to the club with "Honorary" membership status. Member of Delta International.

With vast majority men I am dominant and regarded as highly skilled by my peers. When I top enjoying a fine cigar while I put a sub through his paces is part of the package Identify as "versatile” not as "switch". With a highly skilled Sadists I revel in the power exchange of submission. If you see an activity in photos on my profile, then with the right "SIR” I like receiving it as well.

Believing a man who tops others cannot be a good bottom is fallacy.
I could not send a man's mind someplace I cannot go myself
The role I start scene in is where I want to stay. Experienced BDSM tops who enjoy a cigar in the dungeon move to front of line. One such Man is Stiefelkopp on this site. When we are together, I proudly wear his collar.

Jaybee is my best friend (with benefits) and a great sub (pain pig). My longtime " boyfriend", who was formerly my slave, is Gringoatee.

I am here to meet real men for SM.
I am not here to find a pen-pal or fulfill your cyber fantasy.
Understand that not everyone can post face pics online. CVS
There needs to be a clear face pic on your profile.
If not, you MUST attached to your message or WILL BE IGNORED.
A picture of your cock or asshole rather than your face establishes you are too damn stupid waste time on. You can upload a “G" rated face picture to your "Private Gallery” (not visible to public) to attach to messages.

Poppers are cool, but if you need to be "buzzed" on drugs or alcohol for BDSM then then move on.

I travel extensively with a “toy bag".
Experienced and creative so have great SM sessions in hotel rooms while traveling. However, my best scenes happen in my well-equipped San Francisco dungeon. Occasionally bring in suitable man for "extended training." Subs sleep in dungeon secured with locked collar on aircraft cable long enough to reach toilet and remain in role for duration.
Fully vaccinated M-Pox and Covid. HIV neg (but positive friendly).
Never had an STD but test regularly - so should you.

Recon app is on my phone. Did you know that you must sign off app or continue to appear to be online? Closing app on home screen does not log you out. Recon is for cruising not communication, if know me then Email, text or call.

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Recon removed Travel Plans Calendar from all Profiles. Making this a Premium Member feature instead of removing could well be motivator for men to upgrade to paid "Premium" from free "Basic" account. My travel plans section "got me laid" as I appeared in destination ahead of arrival date while my location still showed I was home for "local opportunities" until departure. Men from destination reached out in advance of trip. I could screen & schedule advance. I sent Recon a respectful message letting them know this loss was a major down grade for paying members. Have you let them know? Reach out via Customer support tab at bottom right of screen. Be respectful.