alfredosian Bondage and CBT for novice or experienced sub

I'm a non scene white male Dom. D&D free, HIV Neg, expecting you to be too.

DOs:

I love to tie down a guy and play with his helpless body: CBT, TT, edging, polishing, tickling, CBT, prostate massage, hot wax, short term chastity, CBT, occasionally spanking ... Oh, and did I mention CBT?

You don't need to be into everything in this list, but definitely need to enjoy bondage and S&M. I'm also happy to try new things if they sound fun.

I usually play at the boundary between pleasure and pain, keeping a guy hard and horny throughout the session, occasionally crossing into pain territory, coming back, and slowly increasing the intensity until the final release. I really enjoy pushing a guy who gets hard from it, using his hard-on against him, making him squirm, wish it would stop, yet hope it won't. The specifics (activities, gear, pace, intensity, duration, ...) depend on who I play with, their turns on, turns, off, experience, limits, ...

I'm into sensation play more than role play and mostly quiet during a session. My hands and toys do most of the talking and your moans provide the main sound track. I'm not into y3lling, v3rbal abus3, 0wnesh1p, 24/7, ... That doesn't mean I can't or won't push you. Just that I don't need / want to / enjoy treating a sub like trash to have a good time.

I enjoy playing with both experienced guys and younger novices. I like regular body types (slim, slender, average, athletic, muscular), but not extremes (an0rexic, 0verwe1ght).

I like NSA recurring play, getting to know a sub's buttons, and establishing the level of trust necessary to try interesting things.

The pictures in the galleries are all from my sessions. I occasionally do videos as well, with guys who enjoy being worked on on camera. You can find them on ThisVid & xHamster (same id). They illustrate most of what I mention above in terms of activities, partners, play style, ... So they're a good way to get familiar with my work and see if we're a good match.

DONTs:

I'm not looking for 0ral or ana1 sex.

Not into und3rage, f3m, x-dress1ng, b3ars, b33r guts, f00tball play3r build (and similar euphemisms), mast3r/slav3, 24/7, verbal abu5e, hum1liati0n, can1n3, r@unch, r0le play, following scripts, watersp0rts, 5cat, bl00d, cyb3r sex, sm0kers, "pr0fessional" whatever that means

I don't play with drug5, p0ppers, alc0h0l, or any behavior altering substance.

Not interested in edging only sessions or years old empty or friendless profiles.

OTHER CONSIDERATIONS:

I put quite a bit of time and effort in making sure that we both have a good time. I expect the same respect in return. If you try to make it all about you and only you, the session's going to be over fairly quickly.

Here are a couple of ground rules to keep most flakes and pics chasers at bay. If you can't live with them that's fine, I can:

- Don't expect me to share any personal info - including face pics - until we've established that you're real i.e. you actually want to play and we have met in person. In return I won't ask any personal info either, because I don't need to know and I don't care.

- I will have questions for you to answer offline. The main purpose is to assess your turns on, turns off, experience level, soft and hard limits, play style and expectations, which I find useful to gauge if we have sufficient matching interests, and build sessions that we both enjoy. If answering questions and sharing what turns you on & off is too much work for you, you don't see the point, or you still believe you don't have limits, then you're not worth my time.

- Same thing if you can't intelligibly explain what you're into. "Nice toys", "Whatever you desire, Sir", or merely copying from my profile doesn't cut it.

I enjoy playing with guys who are motivated and eager for in-person play, so I'm unlikely to contact you first. I'm very patient with novices and will try to address any question or concern you have. But if you need to be convinced, chased, ... we're not a match.