BusterBDSM Jack

"If I can take away your history, I can take away who you are. If there is no evidence, your leather grandkids, who will be out in about 15 years, can be told anything. You can sell them any bag of goods. I can tell them they're sick. I can tell them they're degenerate. I can tell them they're wrong. Because if that's not true, there would be proof."
-Mama Vi

Save our history. Remember our history. Remember the old enemy and remember the old alliances.
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I'm Jack.
Long time 99% Dom Top with a pup side for the right guy.

I live by my values and refer to them often to hold myself accountable to what is right.
The world is a vile place sometimes, and queer people are under threat at home and overseas more than ever.
We have to put differences to one side and work together to protect our community and our long term interests.

'Being kind is more important than being right'

I tend not to play around. If I'm going to play, it's usually with people I have a longstanding connection with and therefore benefit long term from. If I don't know you and you message asking for play, I won't respond.
I don't really meet people here with the intent of forming a connection for the purposes of later play either.
I want connection with my brain first, before I consider connecting with my dick.

That said, I have a type, which is boyish faces and cute smiles.
Waist size not an issue within healthy bounds. Age, usually under 35 for the type of dynamic I usually have.

I value dynamic ahead of any particular kink. If a kink a sub is in to fits the dynamic of the interaction/relationship we're building, then I'm into it to for that relationship too.
I collaborate with subs, we're both playing together and we're both bringing to our shared experience.

I have a long term partner.
We're totally open and exclusively play apart.

Not interested in long distance/mainly text based interactions.

Sorry brats, but unless I can make you realise that you really, desperately want to be good boys and girls I'm not really the guy for you.
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Primary Interests:
Chastity
Control
CBT

Current green zone:
Bareback (-ve, on event based PreP)
Bondage
Breathplay
Building trust
CBT
Chastity
CMNM
Deepthroat
Dirty talk
Fireplay
Objectification
Pain
Public
Pup play
Shibari / ropework
Training
Watersports

Current amber zone:
Strict behaviour control
Long term power exchange (outside of sessions)
Forced Workouts

Current red zone (but not necessarily always red zone):
Consensual Physical abuse/aggro
Psychological play
TPE
CNC
Kidnapping

Hard Limits:
'Finger Sounding'
Vomit
Anything involving insects, arthropods and annelids, or Animalia of any kind.
Being Cold
Being Hungry