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--Recon has a travel section/calendar, this places you in the location you will visit in advance ~2 weeks. Check my calendar for current location.
--Plan play times far in advance 99% of the time (minimum 2 weeks), but never hurts to ask if you are visiting!. I'm have a busy non-kink life for now
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Versatile 43 year old experienced bondage lover based out of Chicago IL, Downtown/Loop: Bondage by the Bean! Travel often, looking for regular safe and sane guys for creatively exploring restrictive bondage and sensual control. The combo of what happens beyond that depends on the person(s) but bondage is at the center. Everything varies by the guy....a huge part of the fun is learning where our mutual interests creatively take us. I'm usually doing the tying but relish any times I can get tied or switch. I have been into bondage since birth but practicing it since 2001.
I love ALL types of bondage, all positions, all materials, although I am particularly fond of the basic cheap stuff you could buy at Homo Depot. Particularly: extensive cock/ball bondage, various levels of CBT, tight restrictive nude bondage with tape/rope/saran wrap, mummification, sensual torture, sensual deprivation followed by overload, very tight and complete gags, hoods/head wrap. Loving electro lately: let me wire you up inside and outside.
I am more laid back, introverted, not a dominant personality and not too verbal, I prefer to just focus on the work of creative, good looking yet effectively immobilizing bondage followed by sensual exploration within predetermined limits. I'm not a great role player.
If you don't dig bondage for its own sake to a large degree, we probably aren't on the same wavelength (i.e. its not a light kink/leather accessory/foreplay...it can be an end in itself!)--you know who you are. Tight bondage done right is its own sex, and doesn't necessarily require any sort of climax, although it's sometimes a bonus (and sometimes a letdown). I can tie or be tied, depending on the guy, its all about the dynamic between the two (or more!) guys. Play with or without my boyfriend BoundKK.
In "real life" I also have a variety of interests: literature, theater, arts, *music* (particularly contemporary "classical"), health/medicine, exercise, travel, photography, movies, architecture, museums, travel.
Gear: mostly what you see in pics except leather sleepsacks, chains and dungeon equipment. Almost all pics are my work, a handful are of me tied. Getting into leather gear too.
Disclosures: HIV neg, PrEP, disease free, no drugs, no smoking, conservative alcohol use and excessive caffeine.
Exclusions: Heavy smokers (or smell like it), currently highly intoxicated, actively using illicit drugs, advocate unsafe sex, not my type (I'm generous but I have my subjective judgment--please share several clear and recent photos), 100% subs older than me (will switch with older if you are experienced), empty profiles without friends in the BDSM community to vouch for your sanity.
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