Padlock86

Looking for friends and trouble

Madly in love with the man of my dreams, my husband Mstrb. He has inspired me and challenged me to go further than I ever would have imagined.

About 15 years ago I stumbled upon a site with boys tied up and a stirring in my pants told me something was very different in my life. Four years later I finally worked the nerve up to let a guy wrap cuffs around my wrists and ankles and strap them to his bed. Obviously the stirring in my pants had grown to a throbbing passion and I was hooked.

Since then I’ve had the opportunity to meet a lot of great people, some for drinks, some for play. Sometimes we connected well, sometimes we didn’t hit it off, but always it was an opportunity to learn about each other and ourselves; what stirs our hearts or what stirs our loins. Through these encounters I’ve grown leaps and bounds and I’m grateful to each and everyone of you that I’ve met.

From those first scenes I have certainly learned that the focus of my play starts with control. This can take many forms, a strong arm, a firm look, but most often it takes the form of bondage. I don’t have a huge preference for type so long as it is secure and solid. I very much need to know who is in charge, and if I start to question it I need to be put back in my place. As for what happens at that point I’m very open and negotiable for exploration. Whatever happens I want to be challenged.

My focus is on making sure we all have fun and grow. This can happen with me on either side of the ropes. While my tendency is to bend a knee, with the right boy I can have you firmly under my fist. When taking the Dom role this will most likely involve rope bondage. Its where I find my dominant drive and a place where I excel. I’m often open to pure bondage scenes, hopefully with a camera involved to document the fun, but not required.

Below is the standard list of things that catch my attention, some more than others but I’m always excited to see which sparks your fire.

-Bondage
-Bondage Chairs
-Boxes
-CBT
-Chastity
-Domination
-Edging leading to denial
-Electro
-Fist mitts
-Fucking (always safe)
-Fucking Machines
-Gags
-Hogsacks
-Hoods
-Leather
-Milkers
-Oral (forced or passive)
-Plugs (locking harnesses to keep them there)
-Predicament Bondage
-Puppy play
-Rope bondage
-Rubber (latex)
-Sleepsacks
-Spanking (learning)
-Stocks
-Straightjackets
-TT
-Watersports

I have a few fantasies that I would love to fulfill at some point. Not musts, but things that have been catching my attention lately. Let me know if you have anything to add.

-Strapped down to a fucking bench, chastity on my dick, fuck machine working my ass while my Dom fucks my mouth, held open by a ring gag to make sure I can’t resist.

-Rope suspension

-With prior discussion I would love to do a scene with bondage and getting my head shaved.

-A full weekend of bondage, always under firm control. At no point free but always under the control of my Dom.

-Extended bondage with a catheter and gag combination to be sure that every drop gets swallowed. This may be just me, or possibly another bound boy for cross recycling. And a port for the Dom to add to the mix as well.

I am HIV negative as of October 2024. Tested quarterly and on prep. You should know your status and be comfortable with having a conversation about what it means. I play safe.

Thanks for taking the time to read this far.