Rubbernskin Telling you more...You can call me Scruff

240 lbs +/-, 5’8’’, shaved head. Septum piercing. 1g eyelets (ears). 1 Tattoo...so far.
Sober - No alcohol or other substances.

Hello to all and ‘thanks’ to the guys that “cruise me.”

I am a Rubber enthusiast and fetishist living in the San Francisco Bay area (Oakland). Wearing my rubber gear is a second skin to me, which feels great to wear when the occasion presents itself. In addition, I have fetishes for: business suits/attire, underwear !!!, Leather and Sports Gear (Soccer, Football, Jocks) and my mouth being a cock holster when I am cruising.
Likely, I will Bend my knees before I bend over.

I enjoy developing a discipline of muscle development (lifting and cardio).

I am realizing more by participating in these festivals of celebration for Leather/Rubber identity, that self awareness of kink/BDSM identity is about an excavation to our (self) freedom. Leather or Rubber connects to something within us (as individuals) to affirm being a higher self while in gear. I do not wear my gear to cum and then hang up until the next Folsom or Up Your Alley--not at all. I wear my Rubber or Leather with a pride for unifying with other like minds - not simply for sex. Cum shining my boots or rubber...happens when surprised.

Looking for: A man/couple I can connect with and share the same excitement when Fetish season comes around (Folsom Street Fair, Up Your Alley, MIR, IML and MAL). I am in favor of knowing a man/couple outside of their gear and fetish identity. Hanging out for people watching, lunch/dinner or something non-sexual activity is good before other things. Later, a man being respectful, analytical, caring, fun and about business when its time to make moves or alone together. I am in favor of practicing a custom relationship of OUR making, because at the end of the day - only we need to be happy.

I am Not looking to: own someone. I am not seeking a "master" or be someone's "master," or being an individual’s ‘ethnic fetish.' I am not into Race play, it is not my cup of tea. Again, I am not looking to allow someone to reduce me to only my ethnicity, which is why they want to communicate and actively have sex -- No. Further, if you're only sending me a message because "you're Black," / "my last (partner/bf/hook up) was Black - and assume Black men are redoubtable or share a monolith of identity and would think we would hit it off..." I will say...No. No to Race Play.

I once read on a t-shirt: “hopeless romantic seeks filthy whore,” maybe that is what all men want-especially gay men. A true gentleman, could it be someone that sexually is a free soul in private or shared (for occasions)? A gentleman, which understands the alternative identities of BDSM or exploratory sexuality in BDSM of pushing boundaries? Finding such a gentleman/individual is truly a journey. Who knows? I am just talking…

I hope to have a man in my life, at some point, that understands what fetish means; a man/individuals that get excited when Folsom Street (SF/Europe) approaches or he does not have to participate but understands. Reciprocity; I share with him my desire/wants in this identity and he explains to me his point of view in his identity. We share that understanding of each other's Gear/Leather/Rubber identity.

I am on Twitter: @scruffOso