BDSM from both sides [taking a break again]
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United Kingdom, England, South London, SE2
Bondage, Electro, Hoods & Masks, Impact Play, Rubber
It’s no use. The restraints are strapped securely, the padlocks locked shut. Escape is impossible, and struggling only makes the rubber sweatier. Eye covers on the tight gasmask black out the light, and the air becomes sweet with poppers. The heavy pulse cuts through the white noise, a rhythm matched by the waves of rapidly intensifying electro in the cock and ass. Moaning, controlled and tortured - it’s no use… and it’s only just beginning.
Hey. I’m Switch, and I’ll take either role in scenes like ^that^.
I’m fully vers, but Dom by default. I’ve played 18 years and have done most things in both roles. Doing so helps me get the best out of my subs, and gives me total confidence when I sub to others. A cook should know what his ingredients taste like.
Core to everything I do is the transfer of control. When I Dom, I seek to gain as much power over you as I can. Physically, this is easy: metres of chain, some thick leather restraints and collar, a tight gag, a snug blindfold and you. are. fucked.
Mentally, there’s the challenge. I want to get in your head, and make you FEEL controlled. Thinking and feeling what I want you to think and feel, and unlocking mindsets both known and new to you. Slave, dog, pig, toilet or just an object - I want to draw out what makes you a good submissive, and take control of it for my own pleasure.
When I sub, the reverse is true. By default I sub how I'd like my own subs to do so, an advanced canvas on which to alter and make your own. I aim to sub selflessly, for you to get maximum enjoyment out of me. If you are a sadist, I will push myself to endure pain and torture for your pleasure. If you’re into edging, then frustrate the fuck out of me. If you just enjoy seeing a boy bound up, senses controlled and going nowhere for a long time, then I’m ready for some downtime.
To get this, I want to know the person I’m playing with. I want to know you and what makes you tick. I want to know what you’re like having a laugh with me over a drink in a bar - because later on, when you’re looking at me wide-eyed bound at my feet with your mouth gagged tight, it’s all the sweeter.
I always meet with the view that I’m going to see you again. A first meet shouldn’t cram in everything, and the journey is important. I want to go further and harder the second time, to enjoy those mindsets developing, limits being pushed, and that mental control be all the more realised. This does mean I’m very rarely interested in meets with holiday visitors etc, sorry.
As for those looking for ownership: I have an amazing fiancé in ‘bgman’ on here, and I’m not looking for anything serious. Reg playmates are all good, but it'll go no further.
I have a playroom, stocked up with 15+ years of gear acquisitions. It’s great.
Some of the stuff I do:
- Gearplay - if it's tight, it's right.
- CBT / TT- huge nipple play fetish!
Stuff I don’t do:
- Public exhibitionism
- Drugs exc. poppers
- Right now / vanilla - I’m not here for that.
Lists not exhaustive, if you're into it - try me..
When I Dom- my age or younger usually.
When I sub- any age: for sexual service, more like the above... but older experienced guys into kink for kink’s sake are a big thumbs up.
Please don’t send me cock/ass pics as a hello, it’s tacky. I like face pics! If your profile is empty or lacking detail, make up for it in the opener. Not here for the 'hey's. Note, I don't always reply right after reading.
Also, reality check for subs: I don't live and breathe kink - I get a *lot* more interest from subs than I have time or inclination to act on. Therefore you need to excite me! If you just want tying up and edging I’m unlikely to be all that bothered regardless of looks etc. Nothing personal. Doms/fellow switches, disregard this message.
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