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Chicago Bondage Fanatic

My phase of life is quite busy currently, play time is scarce, working with me requires patience! Mostly playing on longer weekends, kink conferences, or travel, usually plan ahead. Live in Chicago Downtown/Loop: Bondage by the Bean!

Versatile but play the dom role more often, but happy to switch or play either role, active since 2001, most photos are older.

Looking for regular safe and sane guys for creatively exploring restrictive bondage and sensual control. The combo of what happens beyond that depends on the person(s) but bondage is at the center, I'm versatile for all things. Everything varies by the guy....a huge part of the fun is learning where our mutual interests creatively take us.

I love ALL types of bondage, all positions, all materials, although I am fond of the basic cheap stuff you could buy at the hardware store. Particularly: extensive cock/ball bondage, various levels of CBT, tight restrictive nude bondage with tape/rope/saran wrap, mummification, sensual torture, sensual deprivation followed by overload, tight and complete gags, hoods/head wrap. Loving electro lately: let me wire you up inside and outside. Getting more into chastity lately, have a couple devices.

--Personality: I am more laid back, geeky, introverted, not a dominant personality and not highly verbal, I prefer to just focus on the work of creative, good looking yet effectively immobilizing bondage followed by sensual exploration within predetermined limits. I'm not a great role player but can do some basic scenarios.

--If you don't dig bondage for its own sake to a large degree, we probably aren't on the same wavelength (i.e. its not a light kink/leather accessory/foreplay...it can be an end in itself!). Tight bondage done right is its own sex, and doesn't necessarily require any sort of climax, although it's often a bonus (and sometimes a letdown), let's talk. Play with or without my boyfriend BoundKK.

--In "real life" I also have a variety of active interests: literature, theater, arts, *music* (particularly contemporary "classical"), health/medicine, exercise, travel, photography, movies, architecture, museums, travel. Great to have friends that share these interests also.

--Gear: mostly what you see in pics except leather sleepsacks, chains and dungeon equipment. Almost all pics are my work, a handful are of me tied. I buy a little more gear every year at meetings.

--Disclosures: HIV neg, PrEP, COVID Max Vaxxed, MPX Vaxxed, no chronic disease, no drugs, no smoking, sensible alcohol use, excessive caffeine.

Exclusions: Heavy smokers (or smell like it), currently highly intoxicated, actively using illicit drugs, not my type (I'm generous but I have my subjective judgment--please share several clear and recent photos).

BLUF since 1/15: #2419. Frequently attend MAL/IML.