Bndgswitch

Returning to kink following cancer treatment

I am a single gay man only looking for new fetish friends at the moment. I cannot offer more at this point as In November 2023 I was diagnosed with high grade non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. I am responding very well to treatment and hope to be in remission by early summer 2024. I had my hopefully final chemo session on 19/03/24. After an initial rough few months my thoughts and aims are now on returning to leather and kink, mainly the social side.

I'm genuinely friendly, yet shy and reserved until I get to know people. My self confidence is often low. Unfortunately this can often make me appear stand-offish, which is truly not the case, and I respond well to approaches.

I'm heavily into leather and all forms of bondage. I love straitjackets, ropes, gags, blindfolds and hoods - both wearing them and putting or seeing them on others. Sexually I enjoy being tactile, kissing, oral give/take, nipple play, rimming give/take (clean only), flogging, electro, boots, rubber, gas masks, safe anal, toys.

While I'm naturally submissive I'm often mistaken for a Top. I'm flattered by this and sometimes switch with pleasing results. When topping my aim is to please the sub guy although I'm not into inflicting really heavy pain, humiliation or verbal abuse. I can probably take more than I like to administer. I enjoy poppers although they're not compulsory.

I can accommodate or travel although I rarely agree to meet at short notice. I find some planning ahead works best and builds anticipation for all sides.

I use the cruise function as a way of acknowledging friends or to simply pay a compliment to a profile I admire.

BLUF number 3226. Recently (re)joined London Leathermen, semi-regular at Heart of England Leather in Birmingham, and a newbie at Gear’d Bournemouth.

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