Bndgswitch Looking for leather & bdsm connections

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I am a single guy looking for leather and bdsm friends or friends-with-benefits. In November 2023 I was diagnosed with high grade non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. I responded to treatment and am now in full metabolic remission. Thanks to everyone who offered support and encouragement during a difficult and challenging time.

I'm genuinely friendly, yet shy and reserved until I get to know people. Unfortunately this often makes me appear stand-offish, which is not the case, and I respond well to approaches.

I'm heavily into leather and all forms of bondage. I love straitjackets, ropes, gags, blindfolds and hoods - both wearing them and putting or seeing them on others. Sexually I enjoy being tactile, kissing, oral give/take, nipple play, rimming give/take (clean only), flogging, electro, boots, rubber, gas masks, safe anal, toys.

While I'm naturally submissive I'm often mistaken for a Top. I'm flattered by this and can switch with pleasing results. When in Dom mode my aim is to please the sub although I'm not into inflicting really heavy pain, humiliation or verbal abuse. I enjoy poppers although they're not compulsory.
I rarely agree to short notice as I’m looking for more than quick hook ups. I find some planning ahead works best and builds anticipation for all sides.

I use the cruise function as a way of acknowledging friends or to simply pay a compliment to a profile I admire.

I'm co-admin for the owner of a Telegram kink site, please ask for details. Sometime member of London Leathermen and Heart of England Leather in Birmingham. Occasional visitor to Gear’d Bournemouth. BLUF 3226.

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