SirJude I am NOT a service TOP, seeking only real slaves

If you have a new profile I'll wait a few days to respond. Almost every time a newbie deletes their profile and I’m tired of it. Jerk off to someone else.

I’m a CHUBBY TRANS MAN (losing weight though)

If 80% or less passive let’s not waste each other's time.

Ask for the link for my book on Amazon (and my bdsmlr if you want to get a visual example of what I enjoy).

**I DON’T RESPOND TO CRUISES** but I’ll cruise you to give you a chance to see if you're into chubby trans men. If so, respond back to get the ball rolling.

FFS - know the difference between Dom/sub, & top/bottom. They are NOT the same. And Sissy/CD are NOT trans, stop saying you are.

Don’t call me master (reserved for real life only) or daddy (not interested in this dynamic)

I can almost guarantee 99.9% of you have limits. Also, stop using “nothing illegal” since kink itself is illegal in most areas. Think it through - you’re talking about your life and wellbeing - take it seriously.

Not into NSA. I don’t engage with profiles that mention “sessions” or “roleplay.” I am strictly real life, full-time, live-in only.

For those curious about being fucked - I love arranging cruises and gangbangs as one of my biggest kinks is watching others fuck, especially in groups. But it shouldn’t be focused on its pleasure, it will just be holes to be used.

It’s important to realize life will NOT be a 24/7/365 fuckfest – but it does mean there will ALWAYS be a TPE dynamic in place. Above all else, TPE is my ultimate desire and the myriad ways in which that can be expressed/enforced and love mindfuckery/control/brainwashing.

NOT into extreme gear/leather (I like how some gear looks on some bodies but not into it as a main/overly kink/fetish), extreme bondage, gimps. I also don’t tolerate do-me subs, topping from bottom. I know some seek just fun kinky times which is fine, it’s just not my thing. I seek hardcore full-time.

* I don’t care about age, looks, body type, etc. My primary concern is how well the slave can serve.

* I’m a trans man. I’m not a fetish. You MUST state in your first email that you understand I’m trans and know what that means.

* The first email must also include any limits. If those limits include women then don’t message me.

* Any messages not including the requirements above, one-liners, or any random “chit-chat” types of messages will be deleted – I’m here for a purpose.

* Absolutely positively not looking for a lover, friend, fwb, casual fling, romance, cuddles, or anything else along those lines.

* I enjoy a few taboos - race play, knotty, tongue as TP, and more. If anything considered taboo or edgy is bothersome to you it’s likely not a good match.

* As I consider slaves property/objects they will be spoken to as such. If being called: it, thing, or even pig, hole, cunt, etc. is an issue then don’t message.

* I am hoping to eventually have more than one slave so if you need to be a solo or monogamous I’m definitely not a match.

I’ve been in the real world lifestyle for over 25 years and even wrote a book on it. I’m clear on what I do/don’t want. I seek strictly an M/s dynamic. I can usually tell very early on if there’s a match worth pursuing.

The most common reason slaves are not considered is that I’m the only one asking questions and the slave is only interested in how it’s going to be used and abused for wanking fodder. A slave is surrendering every single aspect of itself including its free will and thus should NEED to know everything about the person they’re giving their life to and if you are not actively asking me questions then you are not worth my time and I will cease chats. The amount of times nothing moves forward because I’m doing all the asking is almost 98% - put work into it because if even getting to know me through easy chat is too much for you then you won’t be able to handle kink with me.

Prove you read this and include “WayHaught” in your first message