kinkyside Strength through vulnerability

🔗x.com/lekinkyside

🔎WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR
Kinky submissive guy with masochistic tendencies. Interested to play with ethical, sane, friendly, caring yet sadistic dominant men. Enjoy being bound, denied, tickled, tortured or humiliated for a Dom’s pleasure. Here to explore BDSM rather than conventional sex.

While I may not want something as extreme as x.com/RogerOfShotgun videos, I am fond of the closeness, intimacy and power exchange portrayed therein. I like the explicit acknowledgment that it’s going to be tough for the sub who consents to endure pain for his Dom. Hearing Roger explain calmly to his willing victim that he’s going to be gagged, then used for his pleasure always gets me hard. Watching the sub let himself be restrained to be hurt by the man he wants to please is a powerful moment. I yearn for the same intimacy during the careful and safe exploration of boundaries: the kind of torment that makes one want to be held and cared for afterwards; a unique state of mind where you're empowered by your own vulnerability. Suffering for a dom is my way of showing my ‘BDSM love’ to them.

Developed an interest for sexual objectification after discovering @tightlypacked’s Tumblr blog. I try to stay in shape as much as possible for that reason and find it arousing to be fully/partially naked around clothed individuals, instructed to wear spandex or a revealing tank top at the gym, or having some/all of my clothes taken away from me, in private or in the right public setting, leaving me exposed, vulnerable and humiliated.

Masochism is the common denominator around my kinks. I might not always derive pleasure from the act itself but rather from being made to endure it for the dom’s pleasure: suffering while being tickled or spanked, suffering from the frustration of being denied an orgasm that I’m desperate for, enduring the unpleasant sensation of post-orgasm torture or swallowing cum, etc.

Love seeing mean terrible things done to a pretty boy, seeing him/them in some sort of predicament, restrained, struggling, uncomfortable and suffering. Hit me up if you need an assistant, a spectator or someone to comfort your sub and stroke his/their hair during the torment.

🍑 I’m a side. If anal penetration is your top priority we won't be a good match.

💬GET IN TOUCH IF
- You’re sadistic and enjoy seeing a guy suffer for your pleasure. Hurt me but don’t harm me.
- You’re into bondage and wanna keep a guy restrained for a couple of hours, watching him struggle as it gradually gets more uncomfortable.
- You’re into orgasm control and get off on telling men that they’re not allowed to cum.
- You’re into humiliation and enjoy putting guys in embarrassing situations
- Popped a boner while reading my profile so far
- You’re into any of the kinks listed below:

🦶FEET
🪢BONDAGE: ropes, chains, hogtie, predicament bondage
🔒CHASTITY: orgasm control, orgasm denial, edging
💪POWER EXCHANGE: protocols, rules & restrictions
😈S/M: nipple torture, post-orgasm torture, mild CBT, tickling
👋IMPACT PLAY: spanking, caning, bastinado
😰HUMILIATION: CMNM, ENM (Embarrassed Naked Male), Denial of privacy, Clothing control, Cum walks, CEI (Cum-Eating Instructions), Objectification, Spit, WS, Public humiliation, Lycra, Revealing tank tops, Speedos, Shirtless/barefoot in public, Dehumanization

⛔️HARD LIMITS
- Anal penetration, bareback
- Blood, permanent marks
- Scat
- Breath play, choking
- Sounding, Needles
- Being pierced & tattooed
- Drugs/PnP
- Alcohol during sessions
- Having my head taped completely (triggers claustrophobia)

⚠️SOFT LIMITS (requires prior discussion)
- Caning
- Temporary marks on back and chest
- Verbal humiliation
- Hoods & sleepsacks (might trigger claustrophobia)

🧜‍♂️FANTASIES
- Long-term/overnight bondage
- Being kept in a cage
- Naked houseboy
- Naked waiter

👬In a committed open relationship with a vanilla boyfriend.
🦠HIV status: -ve (Feb 2025)

If you’d like to know more, just ask! 😅 THANKS for reading till the end!