looking for new friends and some BDSM on occasion
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United States, California, Inland Empire and Deserts, Palm Springs
Bondage, Fisting, Masters & Slaves, Military, Sports Gear
I've discovered recently that if I put up pictures that "I like", you guys figure out what I'm into and appreciate, without me having to write a bunch of text. Besides, it's always fun to look at pictures. I'm also trying to get more pictures of me, in various incriminating and possibly entertaining situations. Please send me a message and I'll send you back a personal picture package... I encourage you to share the ones that you like too! You might be surprised by the interest that you get and the cool people that you meet.
I've made a lot of good friends here over the years and want to do more of that. I've been on recon since I was in the military (and Christ was a corporal, about 15 years ago now.) It had just started up. It's gone through some better times but is still the best way that I've found to meet men interested in what "we're interested in".
I've historically been more submissive but as I've aged and learned, it's also very satisfying to take others to some of the "places" that I've been. I like restraints and control and have found that when hooded or blindfolded, the effects of every touch are amplified. The mind races imagining all kinds of things while in the sub "headspace". It's great being in that space or taking someone there.
For clothing, I like uniforms (military, cop), sports gear (football, wrestling), rubber and leather. It's fun to wear it out on appropriate occasions. It's especially fun to go with somebody. It's even more fun to wear the gear to inappropriate occasions, on occasion.
Been around Palm Springs/Low Desert a lot lately. This will continue. I'd enjoy meeting you if what I say interests you.
I see a lot of mentions of politeness or respect. You will always get that from me. Even if we aren't the perfect match, I'll always be honest and respectful in my dealings with with you and hope for the same. The internet and cell phone culture seem to have made manners simply roadkill. I'd like more friends and you don't find them being rude.
My other Interests include BDSM, FF, ass play, Sensory Deprivation, TT, CBT and WS. No drugs (poppers ok) blood, poop, needles or permanent marks. I like to by fully present during play or training. I enjoy sports gear, military and police uniforms (and how guys look in them), leather and rubber gear and bondage. I like bondage a lot (in case you had doubts).
Physical Data: Blond Hair (kept high 'n tight), 33" waist, 5'9"
5' 10" (178 cm)
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15 Nov 2002
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