hambros

Looking for new connections & experiences.

Attending first GearBound Feb 2026

Updated December 2026.

Not done nearly as much as I’d love to do, but wanting to change that. It’s not simply a want, it’s a need.

SHORT VERSION
Sub. Desire new experiences. In particular the feelings of being helpless, controlled. Knowing that being a sub, letting another guy play with me, control me, is giving him pleasure just as it is me.

Interests and things I’dive to explore include (in no particular order):

Bondage from light to heavy - this is top of my list over anything else
WS
Electro
Mummification (have done!)
Sensory deprivation
Spanking/light pain (baby steps first)
Chastity - while playing
Verbal/humiliation
Body worship/pits
Milking/edging
Feet/socks/trainers/boots
Leather, rubber, military, police/swat, worker/hivis, chav/scally

Don’t drive, don’t host but will travel where I can.

I’m HambrosN on Twitter


LONG VERSION
Submissive. All seems to revolve around giving up control to someone else, to be there to serve, and satisfy them even if that involves being bound, gagged and locked away for a time. So many ways it can manifest. Biggest turn on is bondage, what tiny amount I’ve tried I’ve loved and it’s always been the constant in my dreams.

Generally like to be naked and love to see others in military/camo, police/swat, leather,/biker, chav/scally, sports kit, tradie/HiVis and more recently finding an interest in rubber and latex. I’d also like to try out being in gear mire as well. I’ll consider anything that isn’t a hard limit or turn off. Finding myself getting right into feet/socks/trainers/boots.

So many things to try (just the things I can think of now): WS, electro, more bondage from light to heavy, mummification (now done!), sensory deprivation, spanking/light pain (baby steps first), chastity, verbal humiliation, body worship, milking/edging.

Bondage is the thing I want to explore the most. Just to be tied up for the fun of being tied.

Hard limits: Hard pain (though I’ve not yet discovered what that is for me), marks, scat, spit, blood/cutting, drugs and naturally anything illegal.

I’m sensible chap and have no expectations of diving in, or having the perfect meet first time. Different people can do different things for each other. Can involve sex but not essential. Key that all parties are enjoying it.

In a relationship and he obviously comes first ( but he’s happy for me to do my thing). I don’t drive and can’t host. So I will travel how. How far depends on what for (and boring things like cost).

And outside of kink I’m shy, geeky into sci-fi, theatre, love a good comedy show or musicals. I write music for fun.

18-50ish but it’s not about the number, it’s about the whole person.

I’m HambrosN on Twitter