JayCA

Switch poly kinkster with a playroom 🦶🏼🧦👟⛓🔑

Find me on Bluesky as @jayca.me and twitter/x as @jayCA_kink (I’m switching to Bluesky tho) check out all my links: https://jayca.me

I am a queer poly switch kinkster living in San Jose, CA. I prioritize my relationships first, so I am not always ready and available to meet up.

Joint/group play is high on the list right now and chat/friends are always welcome

I’ve got a wonderful and hot af husband (@Sk8shoezboi) that I’ve been together with for more than 17 years & a sweet and sexy partner (@Alexy80) who I’ve been with for a year and 1/2.

My Dom Side:
I love getting cute subs tied up in my dungeon. Twinks and skaters usually get to the front of the line...although, I like guys of all style, color, ethnic background, etc. ! I usually tie up guys younger than me. I really enjoy making fantasies a reality. I've done everything from light and sensual bondage play all the way up to abduction. I am very much into clear communication and am a major advocate of active consent (especially for a kink scene). I also love playing with first time subs...happy to take it slow or go as fast as you want. The point is that we both enjoy ourselves on the journey! I am picky with new play partners right now and would chat with my husband and BF first before agreeing to play.

My list of things I'm Into:
Bondage, cum denial, edging, milking, blindfolds, gags, tickling, feet, pits, skater & soccer shoes/socks, CBT, nipple play, consensual non-consent (CNC), electro, anonymous scenes, mummification, chastity, latex, poppers, outdoor, groups, CMNM, and more. Of course, all of these things are negotiable! When I am Dom, I also like impact play, spanking, and flogging. I am also VERY open minded! Have something you want to try?? Let's chat and see if we can turn your (or my) fantasy into a reality.

I am also happy to take photos and videos (I like that). BUT, if you aren't into that...no worries. You can find photos on my twitter and some videos on OF (@JayCA_kink)

A bit about my Sub Side:
As a sub, I love much of the same sorts of things as a Dom. I am happy to get tied up and played with by pretty much anyone (age isn't a factor when I am a sub). I will say that I don't usually switch in a scene. It's hard for me to change that headspace. Again, I just need to chat with my current partners first before agreeing to play.

I've got a full private playspace and a ton of gear. Ask me about it!

Outside of kink I enjoy camping, yoga, cycling, hiking, and live music. I go to burning man and love to travel.

NOTE: Some pictures are of me, some are of my husband, some are my boyfriend, and some are of other guys I've had the privilege to meet and play with. All the photos here are shared with the consent of ALL the players involved.

I know my HIV status (negative & on PrEP and occasionally DoxyPEP) and you should too. I get tested regularly and am STI negative.

Please don't equate HIV status to cleanliness..(i.e. "Are you clean?")...that is a major pet peeve (and incredibly insensitive). Also, if you’re not interested, just say so. I don’t get why we think ignoring each other is right

Alright...I'm impressed...you read this far? Well, hit me up and let's chat.