JesterTX2001 In Search of Chill Sub Boy

I would like to think of myself as someone who walks the liminal spaces pretty well. I love a fun late night laughing and drinking with friends and family, but know how to get up in the morning and work. I love to be goofy and speak memes when I can, but easily move into a sincere attitude when I sense the need. I love to dominate and be serviced, but also can't help praising and cuddling my sub boy in between those times.

I am looking for someone just like that. A kindred spirit outside of the bedroom and a good boy who is eager to please in the bedroom. A guy I can hang out with on a regular basis to drink with, watch movies with, listen to music with, and play video games with, who knows when to put down the controller and pick up my joystick when it is time to be a good, servicing sub.

I am not great at hookups so if you are looking for something immediate, please do not frustrate yourself here. I would rather get to know someone for a longer period to confirm the feeling is a good one before anything goes anywhere. Subsequently, if things do get serious enough then I tend to focus on one guy at a time. Sex is very important to me and I need to confirm that compatibility before moving on with anyone.

I get along well with goofy homebodies who can carry a good high, deep conversation, and enjoy speaking about all things pop culture. Am usually into scruffy, submissive guys. I get very aroused and like to prey on a smooth, smaller-framed, swimmer's build kinda guy. Overall, though, I have noticed that my heart tends to fall for more dark-haired, masculine- or dude-types. I have been able to pin down over the years that I identify as androsexual. I don't know if that will change but I do know that I just want to vibe with someone down to Earth and fun, on a regular basis.

I am pretty tame, compared to other offerings on this app. I have used some, but am not too terribly much into gear, and usually just dominate with myself and my personality. I live comfortably in the areas of trust, consensual non-consent, power exchange, somnophilia, objectifying and being objectified, and being worshipped. I am familiar with cum control and am comfortable if the sub does not care to get off or would prefer to focus solely on his holes. And about holes, I look for a service-oriented sub with a strong oral fixation, who revels in being randomly used by his Dom throughout the day, whenever his Dom needs his holes.

I am an attentive person by nature and I respect safe words. When the boundary is crossed, the fun is lost. I am a Dom in the sheets and a happily outgoing and animated geeky nerd in the streets. If you are expecting a strong personality all of the time, you won't find that here. I am an effusive person and I tend to praise naturally the more attractive I find you, your body, and your smile. When I am not dominating my boy in the bedroom, he is my equal around the house and town (although I do still love secret moments of reminding him that he is owned, and owned by me). I absolutely love physical touch, kissing, and cuddling quite a bit.

I am not into scat, blood, pup play, polyamory, open relationships (no offense meant; just don't like having curfews when we hang out), bottoming, sounding, rimming, sissification, ABDL, or party drugs (though I do like my psychedelics). Also not into non-local connections or sexting—we either have good conversation and chemistry and meet up, or we let things go.

If you don't have a face pic in your profile and your messages reflect the same, I probably won't be responding. Sorry.

Happy hunting, fellas!

== Results from obeytest.com ==
https://obeytest.com/r/0S3AAEb8lJkgtOTqypaz

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Dominant
87% Master/Mistress
78% Degrader
77% Sadist
67% Primal (Hunter)
67% Brat tamer
56% Rigger
50% Owner
46% Experimentalist
43% Exhibitionist
9% Non-monogamist