tomthatslaves

Eager slave for training - service and obedience

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Location:

United Kingdom, England, East London, Forest Gate

Interests:

Bondage, Impact Play, Leather, Masters & Slaves, Watersports

I’m 40, Scottish now based in East London, and in an open marriage. My husband comes first, but I am open to serve, endure, and worship other Men. I am developing myself as a slave: developing obedience, taking pride in a job well done, and finding fulfilment in pleasing my Superiors in whichever way I can.

I’m a locked boy and denial is a core part of my path. I am regularly locked (Hubby has the key) and kept from release, pent up sexual energy driving me on. Pain and humiliation are equally important: CBT, estim, impact play, and bondage all have their place as tools to train me deeper into obedience.

I am not perfect, but I hold myself accountable, respectful, and serious about my development. Each scene is a chance to learn more about surrender, and to prove myself as worthy of my Dominant’s time. When I get things wrong I’ll own them and look to correct them and myself as soon as I am able to.

Kinks & Interests
Slave / submissive / boy
Bondage / CBT / Chastity / CP / Electro / Impact play / Sounding / Bastinado / Nipple Torture
Anal / Oral / Deepthroat / Rimming / Cummdump
Humiliation / Degradation / Watersports / Musk / Pits
Leather / Sportswear / Scallies / Chavs

Social
I enjoy discovering the fetish community, meeting like-minded men, and sharing experience as well as play. Outside of kink I’m sociable, enjoy food, drink, and gaming,. I’ve restarted my gym training — I like the idea of a Dom keeping me accountable for my body as well as my submission.

Looking For
Superiors who value discipline, obedience, and can take pleasure in a slaves discomfort. Men who want a slave they can shape to their wants. one who suffers well, learns quickly, and finds his pleasure in service.

Consent & Limits
I adhere to principles of RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink) and FRIES (Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific) as the foundations of my play. I serve with openness and respect, and I know that consent and communication are essential for true surrender. I’m also aware that many things we may do carry risks and want us to be clear about them and how we’ll manage them before the session.

I’m regularly tested, on PrEP and use DoxyPEP.

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