ReadingSM Dad seeking young toilet and pain/CBT slave.

I’m looking for a very submissive single young man (20 – 35) for ongoing regular use/abuse, training and friendship. I’m not looking for one offs. You must be unattached, no bf (or gf) even if your relationship is open.

There is a big different between being a bottom looking for sex and being truly submissive. The former usually wants things done to them that they enjoy and get off on. Whereas a true submissive really does want to put the pleasure of their man ahead of their own and the sub getting off is of little or no importance. It does have to be consensual, but that doesn’t mean it has to turn you on or even be enjoyable for you. Your satisfaction comes from submission and service. While I think of myself as a reasonably considerate person towards others in general, when it comes to training and using a sub, it is going to always be about what I want and enjoy.

I’m not a traditionally dominant kind of guy, I don’t yell orders and enter into roleplay and I’m not into forcing you to do anything. What appeals to me is submission. If I’m having to force you then there is no true submission. That’s not to say I won’t encourage and persuade you to go further.

I’m willing to listen to your concerns and discuss your abilities and I definitely want someone I can get to know. I want you to succeed it taking things further and learning to be a better submissive. I want to feel proud of you when you learn something new and give you a hug when things don’t go quite so well.

Things you’ll be required to do, with training as needed.

Keep your crotch and ass shaved smooth. Non-negotiable.

Do not play with your own cock unless I tell you too. Your cock, balls, asshole and the rest of your body are my play thing and not for your own pleasure

Take hard and repeated ball busting with hands, riding crop, paddles, belts or whatever. Think in terms of at least 100 or more hard whacks to your balls.

Sometimes CBT with me clothed and you fully naked (CMNM)

Stand or kneel with your legs spread without restraint to see how much you can take. I’ll restrain you later for further ball abuse

Cock whipping

Deep heat and hot wax on balls, asshole and cock head

Asshole whipping

Electro-torture

Spanking and paddling

Finger fucking

Large dildos

Watching you fuck yourself with dildos

Rimming, clean and dirty

Piss drinking

Being milked dry

Fisting

Learning to submit after you’ve cum

Full toilet service (eating shit). Along with ball busting this is a very submissive act that a true sub can do for his man. Sometimes I’ll feed you directly from my hole, sometimes I’ll want to watch you eat off a plate.

Eating your own shit occasionally. If you think that you could learn to eat mine, but don’t want to eat your own, then you’re missing the point. It is about what I want, not what turns you on.

Despite my extreme interests, I’m a fairly decent guy and would like to find someone I can chat with, go visit places with (I like castles) as well as to watch movies together on the sofa, with you kept naked of course, just in case I want to play with you or need to piss.

I prefer a clear shaven guy, but a short neatly trimmed beard maybe acceptable. A smooth body is also best, but again it depends on exactly how it looks. Any hair on the crotch or ass is not acceptable.

You must have a clear face pic on your profile, or send one with your first message.

I prefer to meet for a coffee or a beer initially. A conversation is a good place to start for anyone serious.

If you want to meet for a drink, I will require a body pic that shows your face, but you can wear underwear or shorts if you like.

However, if you ever expect to be invited to my home, you will have to send fully naked pics first, front and rear, face clearly visible in the full frontal. There is no exception to this, so please don’t ask. I do love a guy to submit naked body pics, I feel it is a good sign that he’s actually submissive, plus I like to see what he’s offering to me.