lemonmeringuepie queerdo84

I use They/Them pronouns. Separately, do not call me sir or boy, I do not identify with these terms.

Easy going queer checking out this app and seeing what it is all about as I also explore my queerness and its interplay with fetish. Also being single is dull and I kinda wanta do the who relationship thing.

So a little more about me - I’m originally from Northern Ireland and have been living in London for longer than I care to remember!I work for an advice giving charity but outside of this I enjoy theatre, swimming, food/cooking, hanging out with my friends and smashing the patriarchy 😁

I am sober and I am ideally looking for connections rather than NSA as I begin to explore fetish again albeit sober. I am demisexual side who tops. That being said if there is a connection (and a gorgeous ass and ripe pits) then I’m all over it - everyone wants a human hand warmer and some ginger bred 😜

I also identify as enby/genderqueer - basically when it comes to gender I’m like IDK I just work here. So please don’t use gendered terms like daddy, boy or sir and please do not come at me with your toxic masculinity.

For me the fireworks come if there is a connection that is more than just scratching an itch. I am also up for exploring the scene and all its glorious intersections outside of commercial social spaces too.

I have done two podcast for Recon (queer and fetish / queer fetish history) as well as giving a masterclass for Fetish Week London 2022 and writing an article about pride and fetish:

https://www.recon.com/en/Blog/Article/member-opinion-fetish-pride-love-love-but-whats-kink-to-got-to-do-with-it/3192

I also work some of the fetish parties in London for Recon so come say hello!