Kenf (Gear Enthusiast)

“Since your face is unavailable to me, why should my face be available to you?”

Sex isn't how I lead my life.
My head is firmly in the driving seat and my dick takes the back seat, so to speak...
Not to say that I don't enjoy sex, it's just not a major priority


Gear however is an aspect of my life that takes place both inside and outside of the bedroom. It's developed from a fetish into a lifestyle. The social side of the fetish scene is one of the best I've known.  Hence why you'll find me frequently by a bar at any of the various events that take place throughout the year. Getting to know someone and what makes them tick is much more important to me than knowing what gets them off. Hence why I'm not a fan of NSA. A connection is far more important.

If you want sex, use Grindr!

Want an experience, be prepared to invest some time.

I prefer to get to know someone, exploring and pushing each other’s boundaries. No plodding along for me - I want to embark on a journey of self discovery.



Not the most talkative at first . . . but I'm Scottish. We're sarcastic, bitchy, roaring alcoholics.

I'm always open to new ideas. I’ve discovered I like some really surprisingly things by just giving them a try!


So send me a message - always up for a chat.

However if I say no please respect it - pestering is never attractive!

Throw some passion and drive at me and you will no doubt get my attention . . .

@Kenflaw