We continue our chat with Featured Member cuteplaytoy. In this second part he talks about kink in other cities and his love of bondage:
R: How long have you lived in London? Do you see it as home now?
CPT: I moved here last summer, as I said I lived in different places but coming here was a big step for me. I didn't even have a job but I wanted to give London a go. Now I'm so happy with the change. I think I have learned a lot and I keep on learning every day. In fetish terms, my life has improved a lot, I'm having amazing experiences here and I'm sure I will have some more in the future. For the moment I would say that London is my home.
R: Have you experienced fetish scenes in other countries? If so, where, and did you like those scenes?
CPT: Yes, I like to travel and if there is a fetish event or party I try to do it, when possible. I like to go to Berlin for Folsom Street Fair in September. This year I'm going and I'm looking forward to it. I quite like the ambience in the street where you can catch up with friends, talk with people, have a couple of drinks and show off in your favourite gear. Two years ago I got stuck in a leather straightjacket for the whole street fair, it was very exciting for me and for the master who was leading me. I had a great time. Recently I went to the Netherlands, the scene was smaller than in Germany but the guys were very kind. I just have to give a try to Antwerp now. Everybody says it is amazing but I've never been. And of course, I've been invited by a friend to go to San Francisco but first, I need to save for the ticket flight! (laughs).
R: Yeah, it's not cheap to get to San Francisco but it's well worth the trip! From your profile it's clear you're a big fan of bondage; what is it about it that turns you on?
CPT: Actually I cannot explain why I feel turned on by bondage. There's no explanation. When I think about some kind of restriction, ropes, handcuffs or something like this I feel excited and I even get a hard on. More if I picture me in that situation. I think it has something to do with being under the control of somebody I really like. It's giving all to a person who you trust and, on the other hand, knowing that this person is going to take good care of you. It's a sense of belonging.
R: When did you get into bondage?
CPT: I would say that I got into bondage when I opened my recon profile, more or less 10 years ago. Before that I had some initial experiences but I cannot say that those were proper bondage.
R: Can you describe some of your first experiences?
CPT: My first experiences of proper bondage were with a guy who is now a very good friend of mine. He is very experienced and has a great playroom with lots of equipment. I can remember that one of the first times we met, he made me wear a football player uniform and he started tying me with ropes doing a beautiful and cosy work of knots. Some of the ropes were rubbing my crotch tightly so I got so excited and with a hard on. I was trying to aware him not to pull the ropes 'cause I was about to cum, but I was tape gagged. I ended up cumming before he finished the work. (laughs) As a punishment for that he left me tied up to bed while he was having a drink. (laughs)
R: (laughs) Wow! That sounds like a great first time. Especially as you made a lifelong friend from it. So what fetish gear would you say you are into?
CPT: I don't have a specific fetish outfit that I like the most. I'm so kinky, I like all. (laughs). Actually, I've always thought I was more a leather guy but these days I'm being very attracted by rubber as well. I have a new tailor-made suit and I feel very excited when I wear it. I love it. Army and skinhead gear are in my top interests as well, but for the army stuff I see it more for playing than for showing off in a party or in a fetish event. Uniforms and worker gear are also welcome. And I have to add that I feel excited about suits and ties, and if they are part of a uniform, the hard on is for sure.
R: What gets you hardest?
CPT: This question is so simple. (laughs) everything related to bondage and restriction of movements gets me super excited and with a hard on. From chains, handcuffs and metal stuff to ropes or leather restraints, everything related to bondage gets me hard. I have already experimented some of them but I still have a lot to try, so if anybody wants to try a new piece of bondage on me, just drop me a line! (laughs).
R: I'm sure you'll get more than a few offers (laughs)